A recent google search for
"take stock definition" turned up the following:
take stock
phrase of stock
1. review or make an overall assessment of a particular situation, typically as a prelude to making a decision.
1. review or make an overall assessment of a particular situation, typically as a prelude to making a decision.
"he needed a period of peace and quiet in order to take
stock of his life"
Synonyms: review, assess, appraise,
evaluate;
Informal size up
I firmly believe it is vitally
important to the eventual success of any endeavor to be completely honest about
where you are when you start. I spent far too many years in a state of
virtual life paralysis because I wasn't able to acknowledge the truth of
where I was in my life or what I truly thought about any number of
life topics. I can't speak to the motivations of anyone else, but for
me, it was this inability to accept where and who I was (*cough* denial
*cough*) that put me in a state of merely "marking
time" with my life.
1.13.18 - 148.5 lbs. |
It took me a lot of mental and
emotional processing to realize that acceptance of my current state is not
tantamount to solidifying it's permanence. There are certainly those who
happily claim "this is just the way I am", but I'm pretty
confident this practice has proven, and continues to
prove, the exact opposite in my life. For example:
Saying "I'm not
judgmental" -because I don't want to be (or perceived to
be) judgmental- when, upon careful examination, the truth of my
thoughts shows that I am... won't help me to change. But admitting that I
am, however unintentional or undesired, guilty of making judgments about
others will help me be aware of these thoughts from nascency and on
guard against allowing such criticisms to fully develop.
Acknowledge where you are and if it
isn't where you want to be... do something about it.
This is the
mentality I'm using to direct the changes in my life.
It is probably the biggest driver for starting (and restarting) this
blog, too. I want to be taking stock of my physical, mental, emotional,
spiritual, and financial wellness on a regular basis... examining what each of
these mean to me at that given point in time and whether the
path I'm on is leading me closer to the desired outcome.
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Thank you so very
much for taking the time to stop by my blog! I sincerely hope that you
got at least some small measure of food for thought in whatever
you read.
Please know that
I welcome any words of encouragement, confidence and solidarity
you might have, as well as any comments with your questions, your
disagreement, your challenging of my heart and mind to consider different
perspectives, understand novel beliefs, and dispel ignorance wherever possible.
My only asks are that
you are constructive in any criticism, considerate of everyone's right to their
own opinion (no matter how mind-boggling their reasoning might seem to
you) and courteous in your interactions with myself and any other
commenters on this blog.
Intolerance for
another's views, abusive language, or descent into personal attacks
of any nature will result in comment removal.